Your first date is your second chance at a first impression so it makes sense to want to do something that stands out. The easiest thing to do is to look to your wallet. After all, not having previous encounters of the dating kind with this person leaves you a little short on gifts and tokens with sentiment. There are a number of common gifts that will do the trick. All you’re aiming for is to impress upon them that you’re thinking about them and leave them with a little something to remember you by after the date is over. Here are a few common first date gifts to get you started.
Flowers are a traditional first date gift and very fitting for the occasion. We know you’re already calculating the price of a dozen long-stem roses, but perhaps you should think twice. Roses are fantastic flowers and very symbolic of love, but this is a first date. You want to make the right first impression. You want to say, ‘I like you and I want to get to know you better,’ and not ‘I’m madly in love with you. Can I have your hand in marriage’? You don’t want to come on too strong and roses might be considered a little over the top. All you need do is look to any flower shop and you’ll see the wide array of options that are available. One idea is to stop in and ask the florist what they recommend. After all, they’re cutting first date flowers all the time! Otherwise, you can look to some of the more popular flowers for romance, such as the orchid, daisy, lily or lilac. Ideally, when you give flowers, it’s important that they have meaning. On a first date, you’re not likely to share any special botanical connection with your company. However, when you’re three years into a relationship and at a special restaurant and the waiter brings over a vase of white daisies, you’ll both be reminded of the magic created on that first date many years before.
They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. The truth, though, is that we all appreciate a great taste sensation. It seem that chocolate ranks high on any list of private tasting pleasures. When it comes to romance, Valentines Day is the clear focal point of celebration, and what says I love you more than flowers and a box of chocolates? Just to clear the air, we’re not suggesting you ask your date to eat their flowers. We’re simply suggesting that chocolates are great first date gifts on any day of the year. You might not always get those tacky heart-shaped boxes, which is a godsend, but you can always find a nice package that should do the trick. If you’re not sure what to get, try a box of truffles. They are usually a couple of bucks apiece but don’t feel the need to blow your bank roll. All it takes is for one to melt in his or her mouth for that rich sugar rush of love to kick in!
If you’re looking for something a little more fun for a gift on a first date, why not look to the sky? Balloons make fantastic gifts when you want to give something a little out of the ordinary. Any balloon or party shop should be stocked with hundreds of different choices. Balloons come with all kinds of messages on them and in a wide assortment of colors. You can get a whole whack of helium-filled balloons that are bound to make a big impression without sapping the wind out of your savings.
First dates are the perfect time to make an impression. Dating shouldn’t be about how expensive your gifts are. It’s about beginning to build something that lasts a lifetime. A small budget and a little bit of thought before will ensure your gift leaves a lasting memory of your first date for a long time to come.
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